Will you be involved in the organising of your hen/stag party or do you feel it should be down to your chief bridesmaid/best man?

I really want to be involved in the planning of my Hen party but my Chief bridesmaid (and sister!!!) wants it to be a surprise. I don't want to offend her, so how can I tell her that I want some input?

I’m going to have a hen party or possibly weekend but let my hens choose what we do. We are going to have a girlie lunch and all put down ideas of what we would like to do for a hen party, pop them all in a hat and then draw one. We have given ourselves a budget so we don’t get ridiculously pricy ideas. Can’t wait to see what we are doing!!! It’s then down to the girls to organise the party / weekend.