Will you be going for top hat and tails, a smart suit or something else? What colour will you be wearing?

I’m the best man for my best man who’s getting married in September. He want us all to wear top hats and tails but quite frankly we all look a bit ridiculous as we are all different heights and sizes. Do you think it is OK for us to have an input into what we wear?

Did you have your say in the end or do you have to wear the top hat?

I think it is really important that the bridal party get a say in what they wear, after all they need to feel comfortable too.

I have friends who have chosen the grooms outfit and have not let them have a say which I think is really wrong.

Maybe I'm just too nice!!

No, we were not allowed a say in what we wear, so yes, we are ALL wearing top hats and tails.

Does anyone else have to wear a top hat? (Seriously, I didn't think it was still a trend!).